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We are headed into a winter of huge changes here. We are getting our house ready for sale while we look for a 2-flat in the neighborhood. There are some things that need fixing up here before we pass the keys to someone else and it’s a bit bittersweet to finally repair something but know we won’t be the ones to most enjoy it. Of course, that’s all offset by the idea of the Notional New and Fabulous Place that will solve all our troubles, fight crime and help us lose weight.

We have finally found a lawyer who can help us whack through the simple but dense paperwork (and court dates) of getting our last name changed. We are going to take Johnny’s mom’s maiden name. At long last. After we change our names, we will be back at the lawyer’s office to get together a will or a trust or whatever is called for. Thinking about naming guardians is such an overgrown bramble of trouble.

We have met with our financial planner and made some financial plans. We also met with John’s aunt, a mortgage broker, and have started the process of getting a mortgage for a 2-flat.

Plus all the Halloween fun with the little bee. Tomorrow is a Halloween party and I attempted to make an astronaut helmet yesterday for her costume out of an octagonal box. She seems to like it though it’s a little big. Sunday we went to Bengston’s Pumpkin Farm in the south suburbs and petted animals and ate roast corn.

Pumpkin Farm

I have some phone calls to make!

Yesterday, my handy-dandy Treo calendar reminded me that there was a lunchtime puppet show happening at the Cultural Center. I don’t even remember where I found out about it; I have been jotting down activity ideas on my calendar as I come across them and it has been paying off.

Our morning breakfast ended with a look outside to find it was snowing. Snowing! I rushed over to the stairwell calling up to my husband, “It’s snowing! It’s snowing!” because it was so exciting. He was less enchanted since he bikes to work. Fiona declared that she needed her hat! and mit-tens! and scarf! The snow stuck on the ground for a few moments, peppering it white but quickly melted leaving the brick patio wet and dark.

Maybe it was the sight of snow that got things moving; I packed up the bee and me, stuck her on my back and took the bus to the train headed dowtown. We were about five minutes late to the puppet show (of course) but found a couple of seats. Fiona took it all in the way she does, intensely fixed and determined. It was a pretty good little play but the journey was really the better part of the adventure. I think every time we have taken the train, Fiona has fallen asleep for at least a little bit; she just can’t overcome the lulling noises of the train and the gentle, friendly voice of the recorded announcer.

After the play finished up, I called Johnny on the phone and invited us to have lunch with him. In the meantime, we walked up to the puppeteers who were showing off the puppets. It was a swirl of people and hard to get a good view of anything so coats and hats and mittens on and out the door. %We stopped for a couple donuts across from the Cultural Center% and Fiona ate one from her backpack perch. She dropped a bit of it here and there, leaving a little trail as we walked up Michigan Avenue. We met up with Papa and at some hamburgers and gave him a donut. Then we stopped at a Sanrio store and bought Fiona a little shiny charm to fix onto her coat.

I thought about going home but then I considered the likelihood, or unlikelihood, of us getting downtown again anytime soon and decided to take Fiona to look at the Thomas Hughes children’s section of the Harold Washington Library. So we said goodbye to Johnny and walked a mile to the library. It was late in the day so we read a few books then they announced the library would be closing (early) in a half hour. We didn’t really see much of the room though it was a very nice, big space. I looked it up just now and saw there was a big dollhouse and some other, interesting materials that we didn’t get a look at. We picked up a few books, paid my outstanding $3.40 fine from May and were on our way back home.

We read a few books on the train but I saw Fiona’s eyes get faraway and I bundled her up onto my lap. She fell asleep almost immediately and left me to consider the relationship between sleep and uncertainty about new experiences and strange places.

When we came to the station, I thought Fiona would wake up. But she remained sound asleep as I picked her up, carried her out of the station, across the street, and sat in the bus shelter waiting for the bus. She slept on as the bus pulled up and I negotiated the fare card, found a seat, and we rode down the street. Her sleep was untroubled by our exiting the bus and walking toward home. So unusual. But I was feeling so sentimental, holding her sleeping form, I couldn’t bear to wake her up, whatever the bed time consequences.

I got off the bus a block late so we walked past a pumpkin patch. Fiona woke up a block later and I asked her if she wanted to look at all the pumpkins. We doubled back and she found a nice little one. Bumpy with green shading. I popped her into the backpack, surprising the pumpkin man with the unexpected contraption, and we headed home, all pumpkin-toddler-books-hats-mittens-coats. When we got home we had some hot cocoa and cinnamon toast to warm up and I wished, all zen-like, for the ability to allow all days to be like this one.

Yesterday morning, Fiona and I met my neighborhood friend and her daughter at the local park where they were having a pumpkin patch. We went early, which was good because it got surprisingly crowded by about lunchtime.

There were lots of activities including a petting zoo (too crowded even before the rush), big bouncy inflated rooms (what are those called, moonwalks?), a hay ride, a pumpkin patch to pick a small pumpkin for a dollar then paint it at a table, face painting, a big band, a bubble machine, hot dogs on a big flamey grill, and pony rides. Really, the simple things are the best. The girls loved getting their hands painted with Cookie Monster and Elmo. My neighbor’s girl would trip or bump her hand then carefully look at her hands to make sure the paintings were still there. Fiona kept trying to peel hers off as if they were stickers.

Pumpkin Patch

And they both were surprisingly happy to be riding around the park on the hay ride. Of course the bubble machine was very popular, too. Plus, it’s just nice to get the little bee out into a big crowd of people once in a while and let her take it all in. We didn’t get a chance to get a pumpkin but we did go to the playground in the park afterwards.

Last night, Johnny and I took the bee to see Redmoon’s Twilight Orchard which “transforms Columbus Park’s landscape into a theatrical stage for its large-scale pageantry and interactive performances”. It’s very ethereal and lovely. Fiona fell asleep in the car on the way over so it must have been very surreal for her to wake up and walk into this dark park with these people dressed in fantastic costumes. She was holding on to us pretty solidly but she was also taking it all in. I keep wondering what her first childhood memory will be (that she remembers as an adult). Mine was the day my mom and I took out bricks from our home fireplace and gave it a second opening on the backside. It was an unusual, exciting thing for me and I think that’s why it stood out in my memory. It is possible Fiona’s will be this giant, spotted, rolling, lighted fish.

Redmoon festival

We are both under the weather, the little bee and I. We started feeling it yesterday but I was anxious to get us out of the house so we tried to go to our first Spanish class at Language Stars on Clybourn. Unfortunately, construction traffic was so bad it took 45 minutes for what Google maps estimated to be a 10 minute drive. I was comically alternating between being stressed out and doing breathing exercises and ended up calming down over the whole thing. Fiona fell asleep in the car, anyway. I let her sleep, hugging her big bunny, while I read a few pages of “36 Views of Mount Fuji”. It helps to keep a book in the car.

After a half hour, I gently woke Fiona up. (She seems to be at an in-between stage where if she naps for more than half an hour in the afternoon, she is over-stimulated and unable to get to sleep at night.) We went into the Language Stars building and met the teacher; she gave (groggy) Fiona a sticker.

Then we went to the Container Store and picked up a few white cardboard boxes. Johnny and I are hoping to make the little bee an astronaut costume for Halloween this year. She really likes rockets and declares everything with a window to be a helmet. Her tin drum, with its see-through circular panels, is often a space helmet. Fiona found a snack jar, too, and I think it may be the solution to self-service snacking for her that I have been looking for. The jar lid is easy to open and I think as long as I keep it filled up, she can help herself. I have a low shelf/bin in the pantry that we keep snacks on so that she can bring them to me when she wants something, but this is better.

Snack jar