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Horsemanship

2005-10-29pp.63 Horsemanship

The first time we put Fiona on a pony she was 15 months old and we were at an autumn pumpkin patch with rides and food vendors. She was dressed as a bumble bee and she wasn’t quite sure about riding the pony but Papa was by her side. She had on her Face of Great Concentration and kept one hand on Papa but she kept the other hand on the saddle pommel.

Since then, she has been on pony rides every Halloween and maybe once or twice at some other events. In each of these subsequent times she has been wearing a broad smile and has wanted to ride again.

I have searched for a stable in the city but found nothing that offers children’s lessons. Instead, once a month, Fiona and I drive a bit over an hour north of the city for her horsemanship class. She was already confident on a pony tethered to a wheel. When she first rode the pony at the stable, she was nervous but she has grown confident. I figure it is like learning a language when you are little. You might not remember it later in life but you will have a strong foundation for learning languages.

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I especially like that these lessons encompass more than just a ride on a pony or a horse. They are showing the girls how to brush and wash a horse, and the different parts of the tack. Fiona’s favorite activity, though, seems to be feeding the animals treats.

Two for two

Ladybug Caterpillars

In addition to the successful gymnastics class, the half-hour Arts and Crafts that I signed Fiona up for at the park district was also a big hit. The teacher was nice and didn’t mind if I stayed during the class. The kids made a paper ladybug; Fiona’s had twelve legs and as many spots as she could fit on it.

Today, we went to open gym but before and after we worked on caterpillars made from half an egg-carton. I swear I just saw the idea the other day but I can’t figure out where. It’s an old idea and googling “egg carton caterpillar” will bring up lots of instructions for it.

Gymnasium

This week, Fiona and I went to her new gymnastics class. Last fall she had taken a gymnastics class but I ended up dropping her out about midway through; it was just too stressful for me. It was a drop-off class behind closed doors, the teacher was tense and all Fiona wanted to do was play on the equipment. She loved the equipment but she was completely uninterested in listening to the teacher’s instructions so she wouldn’t get her hand stamped at the end of the class or the coloring page. Plus the teacher seemed constantly annoyed at us.

This time, I signed up for a parent-tot class at the Peterson Park Gymnastics Center. The facilities are beautiful. We arrived a few minutes early and came into the building. The foyer is the width of the building and a bank of glass doors looks out into the gym so you can see everything that’s going on inside. When the previous class ended, we went in and filled out the release form. The ballet class went upstairs and the parent-tot class had some time to use the equipment free-form. There was an obstacle course set up in a large square around half of the gym with the usual big foam blocks, a ladder, a balance beam and a low bar for swinging. I walked around the course a few times with Fiona while she clambered over everything. Then everyone gathered in the middle of the square for circle time stretches. Fiona was so happy and exuberant. After stretches, the teacher demonstrated the obstacle course and showed everyone how to do a pike or a puck somersault down one of the foam ramps.

All the kids moved to the obstacle course and tried everything out. I was so grateful to be able to walk around with Fiona, pointing out how to wait her turn and watch for the other kids, encouraging her to try doing things that the teacher had mentioned. The teacher stayed by the foam ramp and coached the kids on the somersaults then gave hand stamps for trying. Fiona got three stamps, yay! When she was bored with the obstacle course, I chased her around the perimeter of the gym, following the white tape and she was shrieking happily. Other parents were helping their kids out on the big rings on the other side of the gym.

Then everyone went upstairs. We sat in another circle while the teacher explained the equipment. There were small sized rings for little hands, and small bars. There were more foam blocks and a dance floor where the ballerinas were. But best of all, there was a long, really really, long trampoline. We learned that all the other park districts have had to remove their trampolines and we were given instructions on how to use it safely. Everyone queued up for the trampoline. When Fiona’s turn came, she ran down it like a frilled dragon lizard. I tried to explain how she might like to bunny hop and she was interested in the idea. Her next couple turns she just ran, though. She seemed so happy.

There was another circle-time with a good-bye song. Of course, the bee did not want to leave. We talked about the other kids coming for the next class. Then she had the idea of making a gym at home and she left happy. When we got home, we set up a two-by-four across her chairs, laid out a fluffy blanket under her step stool an put out her balance board. She wanted more but I was pretty tired. It hadn’t occurred to me that I would be taking a gymnastics class, too.

Crafty

Last Thursday, Carolyn and her daughter Smila came over and we played and sewed some toy animals. Earlier in the week, I cut out a pattern for an octopus from some felt, sewed on eyes and a mouth, then punched holes around the edges. We showed the girls where the needle should go in and helped them sew the pieces together. The part they liked best was ripping up the batting to make some stuffing.

Sewing kit

Tomorrow, we’re going to meet up with them again and maybe make some corn husk dolls.

We went to gymnastics yesterday and Fiona came out with a coloring page and with her hand stamped. We talked all week about listening to the teacher or the teacher would be crabby. I probably should have used a little tact on that one, huh?

We went to a pumpkin patch over the weekend. The bee had fun, especially on the train ride, but it was 90 degrees F and everyone was feeling sick in the sun. We went over to Grandma’s house and carved a jack-o-lantern. I gave Fiona a Sharpie marker and she drew some faces on the pumpkin then I carved out the features.

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Today is my quiet day. We will stay at home and make brownies or something. Maybe walk over to the bank to make a deposit. It is supposed to be cold today and I’m grateful for that. If there is really such a thing as a race memory then it is telling me I am of a northern people.

We had gymnastics again on Tuesday and it was kind of tense for me. My friend Nancy came along to see if her daughter Zibby wanted to join the class. Zibby, in her wisdom, pointed out that it would be more fun just to run around and play on the equipment. Meanwhile, the instructor kept telling Fiona she would have to sit quietly or she would not have a turn. In the end, Fiona didn’t get a hand stamp at the end of the class or a coloring page because she wouldn’t listen.

Of course, Fiona and Zibby have the right idea: Your class is boring, you are a tense teacher, and all of this interesting stuff is RIGHT HERE, why can’t we use it, and by the way, I’m only three! So what do I do? Leave things be, I think. Fiona is still getting enjoyment from the class, and ^the teacher hasn’t thrown us out yet^ so I will persevere. I have been talking to Fiona at home about how the teacher wants her to listen to her and to wait her turn and all that. Hopefully, it will have an impact. Even more hopefully, some unschooler will offer gymnastics classes.

In related news, we are buying a climbing gym from a friend.

Gymnast

Last Tuesday, I took Fiona to her first gymnastics class. She loved it. LOVED IT! I had mentioned it to Nancy and she thought it was going to be a drop-off class (which it was) and Zibby had not liked it. So I was worried.

It was interesting to watch. Luckily, I got to sit on the sidelines with another mom (I think Nancy was made to leave the gym) and watch the class. That probably made a big difference for both Fiona and I. Though I made sure not to interact with Fiona during the class so that she would focus on the instructor.

The bee is definitely not used to sitting down and waiting her turn. Watching her struggle between patience and enthusiasm was hard for me. I hear voices in my head, even now, saying, “Well, she’s going to have to deal with that sometime,” which isn’t really true per say. She will have to sit and wait if she participates in this class and I haven’t been able to provide her with this sort of focused experience on my own. So I guess I’m okay with that but I do have to watch myself and how I think about it. Also, I should keep a close eye on Fiona and make sure she is getting good fun out of it and not troubled by the constraints. The instructor seems fine, just a little “school-y”.

Another thing I have been thinking about lately is the dynamics of an only child versus multiple children. And I’m pretty sure mothers of multiple children don’t have as much time to over-think things like I tend to do.

Recap

Friday we were early for Spanish class for once. In fact, we were the only ones there for the first ten minutes. The rest of the class came in over the next fifteen minutes, so I think I am not going to worry as much about being late. Have I mentioned that Being Late causes me disproportionate anxiety? I’m not sure yet what the little bee thinks about the whole Spanish class experience but I was happy that I remembered two words this week: perro means dog! and mariposa means butterfly! It would be nice to find a Spanish language DVD or a website for Fiona to hear more than two words of it during the week. That reminds me, I have a lot of disorganized thoughts on children’s media (movies, shows, websites) that I’d like to organize sometime and write up. I’ve tried a few times but it’s come out as gibberish so I’ll have to work at it again.

On Saturday, all three of us saw the Actor’s Gymnasium production of Shakespeare’s The Tempest in Evanston. It was pretty great with the gymnast actors spinning and swinging from ropes and swaths of cloth. Unfortunately, somehow I thought it would be abridged and rewritten a bit for speed but all of the original Shakespeare dialogue was there and–though it was expressively done–it was a little too much blah blah for the bee. We enjoyed it then left at the intermission and played in the park next door. We found some dinner and had a nice family afternoon.

Sunday, Papa had planned a barbeque for some of the people he had met at the T+G 25th anniversary show. I helped by going to Dinkel’s for donuts and to Trader Joe’s for charcoal. It was interesting to be out and about without Fiona; it really doesn’t happen much. Of course, I stopped at the toy store near Dinkel’s to look for something new for her. For a while I contemplated the marbles; there are three she has come across in the house and she is very fond of them. Unfortunately, she is fond of putting one in her mouth and walking around with it and I am not able to stop fretting about it. So, I had this brilliant idea: I will find a few larger marbles for her that she can’t swallow. In the toy store I had these marbles in hand and was looking at the colors when it occurred to me that these big, unswallowable marbles are deadly weapons and she would be sure to whip them around. Imagine the t.v. set with a gaping hole in it. So I put them back and instead, I found some little animal figures for her growing collection.

Later, at the barbeque, an 11-year-old girl (named after a mythical land) came with her mom. She played a bit with the little bee but she was really interested in our Angel and Buffy DVDs. I brought them all out for her and set her up in the living room and, naturally, Fiona’s satellite instinct had her wanting to be in the living room, too. Each time I left the room, though, Fiona would do something like turn off the DVD player by fooling with the remote so I watched me some Angel, too.

Monday, we went to a friend’s house for a visit. She brought out the paints and our girls had lots of fun. She also told us about the puppy ears and angel wings Target has for cheap and by that afternoon we had a few playtime costumes for the bee.

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This week, Johnny has been on vacation from work and is knocking himself out working on the house. Yesterday, he trimmed the trees in the yard and burned some of the branches in our outdoor fireplace. Today, he used the power washer to clean up the exterior of the house. The front windows look shiny and great. In the meantime, I forgot to meet with my neighbor friend. I called her to reschedule for next week but I still feel like an ass. It’s really just as well, though, because Fiona is not quite feeling herself today. Last night she didn’t sleep very soundly. When I say ‘didn’t sleep very soundly’ I mean ‘whined a lot every few hours and kicked me in the kidneys’. I think it was because she was congested. So this afternoon I coaxed her into taking a nap; she was out for two hours. Now let’s see if she’ll go upstairs to bed. Good night, wish me luck.

En Espanol

Yesterday we made it to Spanish class and it went well I think. The little bee was more interested in the trappings of the play room than in the songs and the people but that is her way of getting comfortable. She even repeated one or two of the words back in Spanish, so she was listening.

She was interested in the games that were played and wanted to hold everything in her hands, forget about those other kids, these are interesting things being handed around. It is the same thing that happened in the sample Gymboree class we took, her interest in the objects lasts longer than the alloted time and she doesn’t want to give the thing back. It is obvious to me that when she is at home, she rarely has to stop what she’s doing to follow some imposed schedule. Or, if I do need to move her onto something else, I do it slowly and I have lots of alternatives to offer her. So the arbitrary nature of the transitions in the class are new to her.

Of course, I have forgotten all of the Spanish words I learned yesterday.

We are both under the weather, the little bee and I. We started feeling it yesterday but I was anxious to get us out of the house so we tried to go to our first Spanish class at Language Stars on Clybourn. Unfortunately, construction traffic was so bad it took 45 minutes for what Google maps estimated to be a 10 minute drive. I was comically alternating between being stressed out and doing breathing exercises and ended up calming down over the whole thing. Fiona fell asleep in the car, anyway. I let her sleep, hugging her big bunny, while I read a few pages of “36 Views of Mount Fuji”. It helps to keep a book in the car.

After a half hour, I gently woke Fiona up. (She seems to be at an in-between stage where if she naps for more than half an hour in the afternoon, she is over-stimulated and unable to get to sleep at night.) We went into the Language Stars building and met the teacher; she gave (groggy) Fiona a sticker.

Then we went to the Container Store and picked up a few white cardboard boxes. Johnny and I are hoping to make the little bee an astronaut costume for Halloween this year. She really likes rockets and declares everything with a window to be a helmet. Her tin drum, with its see-through circular panels, is often a space helmet. Fiona found a snack jar, too, and I think it may be the solution to self-service snacking for her that I have been looking for. The jar lid is easy to open and I think as long as I keep it filled up, she can help herself. I have a low shelf/bin in the pantry that we keep snacks on so that she can bring them to me when she wants something, but this is better.

Snack jar